Sex-ting: A Newer Version of Phone Sex

Texting, also known as text messaging is defined as exchanging brief messages between two persons through the use of a mobile phone or computer. Sex on the other hand means a behavioral characteristic of human being that involves in reproduction of their kind. If we combine the two defined words, we can have sex-ting or sex texting. Sex-ting has been very famous not only to teenagers but also to adults. Before we only had nude photos, porn movies and phone sex--- now we have sex-ting.

Lately, there have been debates and news around the world about sex-ting and how they can affect the people especially the teenagers. Others say, it is better than an actual sex because it is safer the fact that you can’t be pregnant or have STD’s with this “sexual act”. For the parents of these teenagers engaged in this act, they think it is pretty scary because anything that they only say in text can urge them to do it in reality.

Other people have point out that sex-ting is also a way to cheat their husbands and wives. Think of a married guy exchanging sexy photos and sexually arousing messages with somebody else; or a married woman doing the same with some other guys on the net or through a cellphone.

We all know that mobile phones, telephones, internet and computers are products of human intelligence. These technologies have been helping the whole world cope up with its countless demands. We can communicate with our families all over the world or we can do business even from half way around the globe through the help of these technologies.

Now that mobile phones, computers and internet have been used in these not-so-proper-sexual acts, don’t you think we are now using them in a wrong way?

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Religious Views on Sex can Help Teenagers

Does a strong religious background effects on teenager’s views on sex? Studies have found out that teenagers who are religious are less likely to have sex than those teenagers who are less religious. The strong religious views have shaped the teenagers not to engage in sex because of the conviction they feel about it. Religious priests and pastors have been teaching that sex outside the marriage is wrong that’s why teenagers feel guilty on engaging in such activity.

I totally agree with these studies because I was also brought up with a very strong religious view on sex. I believe sex outside the marriage is shameful and is considered to be a sin. At some point I am so thankful that I was brought this way because my teenage life wasn’t spent in early pregnancy or curing some sexually-transmitted diseases (STD’s).

Nowadays, teenagers do not care about what’s bad about having sex at the early age. They don’t have any conviction even if they will have more than one sex partners. It’s very sad that the number of teenage pregnancy and young people suffering from STD’s and AIDS are very high. Media have been trying many ways to educate the teens to have “responsible sex” but it seems not working.

I believe if sex is taught in a religious way, we can help our teens not to engage in sex. Considering sex as a scared thing to be enjoyed only by married couple is a very good idea to help the teens handle their stupid argues on sex at their very young age.

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